Your web site will not let me join for some reason ... l am not sure if you will ever get this text ..l just found yr site and lam needing help for my daughter ..we sadly lost our son Drew Natasha twin 26 mths ago to cancer ...although she has been brave to the out side world she is daverstated by his lost ...l dont know how to help to heal her grief ..they were so close ..can you help
karin wayment Posted:
May 27, 2011 - 02:39:33


Hello, I have been trying to become a member, and have sent forms and I have tried to use the contact page but it keeps telling me that there was some sort of error with my email address. Please email me so I can join. Thankyu, Russell Willsmore email: willsmore@ripper.com.au
Russell Willsmore Posted:
May 06, 2011 - 05:09:49


Can i please have a contact for Twinless twins Melbourne
Mark Posted:
Apr 21, 2011 - 08:50:26
Can i please have a contact for Twinless twins Melbourne
Mark Posted:
Apr 21, 2011 - 08:50:03


I was given a book today after a friend read it and many things reminded her of me. feeling like the "lucky one" so never complain, "having to make 2 lives worth of life" needing alot of attention and always feeling guilty. At birth doc cracked my skull they all worried about me my sister came out half the size and ended up with cerabal pawsy. i never felt like a "real twin" morned over how my sister and her major disability robbed me of my "twin experience" and I've said many times I am living for her and me. I never knew about this, and has answered so many questions- at the ripe age of just about 30- it all makes sense now. Thank you and hope to use this site alot. thank you!
Seranna Posted:
Feb 04, 2011 - 13:35:19

My precious brother passed last month and i am like a fish trying to learn to breath on land its been 6 weeks and this is the first couple of days ive been able to get out of bed and function.I knew it was comming every time i put on a shirt or top i would always see stephens arms and see his face in the mirror.It has broken me in half the pain is almost unbearable i think of him 24/7 all i want is to hold his hand and make him safe ,mom always said look after him he is not as well as you.This pain is somthing only a twin will feel and i dont want to be so empty The day i know will come when i see him again .My heart wishes it was today Mom is in a nursing home and cant be told.Yet she must see the pain in my eyes.She asked me how is Stephen.I know hes gone i always feel it.because now its so hard to breath. I love you brother
Warren Posted:
Dec 09, 2010 - 09:56:27


Hi, Is Twinless Twins coming to Melbourne Mark Twin of Matthew
Mark Posted:
Dec 05, 2010 - 08:25:40


I feel good to know that a site like this exist. I want to say this celebrate the life you love about your twin. It is what works for me.
Lydia Traylor Posted:
Sep 23, 2010 - 19:05:32


Hi my little surviver is now 4 years old but sadly his identical brother passed away in utero at 20weeks. My little boy knows about his brother and sometimes visits him at the cematary. He talks about him at least once a week and is now asking the question, when will he come back? Any tips out there from an adult in my sons situation. Thank you so much. Mother to Sienna, Javier(surving twin) and angel Caleb
Tania Posted:
Sep 11, 2010 - 13:02:41


It's a Tough thing to loose your twin.... My brother died at a young age of 43, we have a serious case of heart disease in our family, I had a bypass at 39. My brother was alot fitter than me and rested from riding his bike home from work and never woke up. I seriously encourage anyone that has a family history of heart disease to get checked out by your doctor. My brother chose to aviod the doc and his life ended early leaving 2 lovely teenagers and a family that loved him dearly.... We miss him dearly.... Phil
Phil How Posted:
Aug 31, 2010 - 04:25:10


To those who post a message here, who want a reply, you can do one of two things. First include an email address in the text of your posting (mail@australiantwinlesstwins.com) or use the forum page so we can respond to you. Cheers Ron Twin to Terry Web Page Owner
Ron Posted:
Jul 11, 2010 - 04:57:36


I lost my twin brother jan 30 1996 to cancer I miss him everyday its like apart of me died to
donna Posted:
Jul 10, 2010 - 04:45:30


I have uncles who are identicle twins. They are both now in their 60's. One is married with 2 chn, the other, single and lives alone: no phone, no email, no mobile phone number and just a line written now and again to his sister, my mum. He has not visited nor has his twin visited him for at least 30 years...is this common?
angela Posted:
Jul 07, 2010 - 07:24:23


Just to see in print that twin loss birthdays are very difficult - today is my 68th birthday - the third since my sisters death. Also that the loss is so core to who you are - the looking in the mirror that is a constant reminder of your loss. I also have difficulty in concern that my sisters children's response to my presence. Nice to get this information on the page.
Lianna Kirk Posted:
Mar 24, 2010 - 04:00:21


Great site, love to hear more.
James Posted:
Dec 21, 2009 - 09:53:44


I'm pleased to see an Australian group has been created. My twin died in the womb. I never understood why I always felt extremely lonely until I read the book 'The Lone Twin' a few years ago. I now understand that even though my twin died in the womb, my sense of loss is valid. Hopefully meetings in Melbourne start up in the future because it would be great to be able to meet and chat with others who can actually understand.
Alysha Posted:
Sep 20, 2009 - 05:14:29


hi im a twin survivor my twin serena jane died four months into pregnacy and im not coping my dob is29/12/1983 if anyone can help me would be awsome cheers
Shannon Smith Posted:
Aug 31, 2009 - 10:13:24


Hi, my brother David died serving in Afghanistan last month. I am finding it very hard at the moment. But I am sure in time I will take strength from the knowledge that I am not alone in this grief and that others have found the will to move on with their lives. I Miss you Dai
Gareth Dennis Posted:
Aug 26, 2009 - 01:12:06


I miss my twin brother Patrick. I feel sort of empty inside. We were different but the same and understood each other. He made me laugh and looked after me. Life is different.
Julia Guinan Posted:
Aug 03, 2009 - 12:22:11


Hello: I was delighted to stumble upon your site. I have searched for support for sometime and although I am from Canada my story is not unlike many of your members. I am encouraged by what I read and look forward to a membership. Melanie Elliott twin of Melodie Halifax, Canada
Melanie, twin of Melodie Posted:
May 12, 2009 - 15:07:27


Congratulations, Gillian on taking on the challenge of your darling sister's children. The love between you and your twin really shows, and by you taking on her teenage children under the circumstances - I don't know how many others could have taken on the challenge. Thank you for your welcome. Enjoy the family as they obviously enjoy, respect and love you. Best Wishes, Marie.
Marie Edwards Posted:
May 04, 2009 - 14:54:33


Hi Marie, and welcome. When my twin sister died (18 years ago) my mum said exactly what your mum said. I was the single one, she had been married, and her husband died some 10 years previously, so I had the honour (!) of inheriting her then teenage children. We have a lovely reltionship, and they continue to be a blessing to me, and their own children are a joy...they say I am an GREAT aunt. Welcome.
Gillian Evans Posted:
Mar 07, 2009 - 11:36:33


Thank you Ron & Grant for your histories. This is definitely the support group that I was looking for. We are the only ones who can REALLY understand being left "the other half" as Norma used to say. We were always "the twins", or "Twinnie" when people could not decide which one they were talking to. We were identical, so we did cause problems. At one stage we were going out with identical twin brothers as friends in our teens- that was fun- the reactions we got were...doubletake is an understatement. Thank you for helping me remember some fun times.
Marie Edwards Posted:
Feb 22, 2009 - 15:32:28


I was told about the Twinless twin group when I notified the Twin Register of the death of my sister, Norma 2 yrs ago. I had tried to find it, but as a rank amateur with computers and e-mails, I had difficulty making contact. Unforunately, she had 2 different brain tumours. The first was very slow growing, &estimated to have been growing for around 20years, but after it was removed, it left her like a young child, unable to even write her own name, but the second tumour was like an eruption in her brain, and she succumbed in a matter of a few weeks. I still feel guilty, but our mother (91yrs) is devastated, "You shouldn't have to bury your children". I am 69 (I don't feel it) and worked in aged care for the past 28 yrs, so I should be able to accept the situation, but I still miss her terribly. I had 4 children, whereas she was single, with no children, but,even though she was about 1,000kms away, she knew when I went into labour with each of my child births. Sorry, I am prattling on, but it is good to find someone somewhere who is able to understand. Thank You very much just for being there. Marie.
Marie Edwards Posted:
Feb 22, 2009 - 14:57:34


What a nice site. I am glad that there is a place to go to for Australian TT's that is in their neck of the woods. The site looks really nice-to whomever put it together:) Irene~The Last One Left Of Many Womb Mates
Irene Posted:
Nov 09, 2008 - 10:16:42


Francie and I were third and fourth born in our family of nine! So I decided to use the guest book I just also found on your website to send my third e-mail to you tonite! It was meant to be that I decided to check my e-mail as I watch the Olympics tonite. If that was YOU sending me an across the miles "nudge" thank-you,thank-you,thank-you!! Tonite I will sleep more peacefully and feeling confident that I will be stronger and more courageous as the second anniversary of saying goodby to Francie draws closer! This also encourages me to get started communicating with other twinless twins and NOT waste precious time just thinking about it !!! Margi,TT to Francie
Margi Ryan Posted:
Aug 17, 2008 - 04:25:52


I lost my twin brother nearly 9 years ago. The day he died, I knew it,even though he was in England when he passed away with Cancer, and I am still feel a sad loss.
Mary Posted:
Jul 23, 2008 - 03:25:58


thank u for putting the information about twinless twins in the Australian twin registry newsletter. I am so glad that I have found out about the support group as the grief is still very raw despite it being 9 years since my rock passed away. One of my friends lost her sister but I have noticed the diffence in the loss that we both feel. I know in my heart that is because I am a twin and no one knows what its like to have part of you torn away
Julie Tennant Posted:
Jul 04, 2008 - 04:11:23


Hi, I'm not sure what I should write here.I lost my treasured twin brother 3 years ago. I instantly felt alone in this world and very guilty that I should still be here. I still miss him just as much. He was part of me. We were 61 when I lost him. Life is not the same anymore.
Barbara Andrews Posted:
Jul 01, 2008 - 10:19:19


At last a support group who must be feeling the lasting grief as I do after being with my twin for 56yrs.Is there a twin loss group in Adelaide?
shane wolff Posted:
Jun 29, 2008 - 07:19:16


i'm glad I got here & it's even better to be amoung friends in the same boat or one similar to mine.
grant Posted:
May 14, 2008 - 13:17:03


Hi Ron, I forget the password, and note I haven't written the next meeting in my diry. Can you let me know when it is please? Thanks Gill.
gill veans Posted:
Apr 29, 2008 - 23:02:15


Hi Ron- This website is a wonderful tribute to twins and twinloss. My twin Paula and I had each other for 21 years. Twinless Twins Support Group is a blessing in my life. in twinship, Linda Pountney Twin 2 Paula
Linda Pountney Posted:
Apr 04, 2008 - 21:27:12


ron & the gang i made i t here wil talk to you soon,Grant
grant douglass Posted:
Mar 19, 2008 - 11:08:02


Hi all, I am looking forward to hosting you all at my place. I used to belong to Lonesome Dove years ago now. My twin sister Judy died 17 years ago this year. I reconnected to Mavis through a contact in Grief Support Inc, a 24hr phone support service for those who are grieving. kind regards Gill.
Gillian Evans Posted:
Feb 15, 2008 - 12:54:19


Congratulations on the site Ron, was moved by your testimonial. sending loving thoughts to you all.
Dianne Posted:
Feb 03, 2008 - 06:16:13


Another thought - could we use this as a message board, instead dof the email group?
June Posted:
Jan 28, 2008 - 12:20:14


A good start - now the rest of us need to back it up with messages & contributions. Thankyou Ron
June Posted:
Jan 28, 2008 - 12:17:49


The site is very good Ron. Very good information for Twinless to read. Thank yoy
Jan Finkelstein Posted:
Jan 28, 2008 - 11:16:57


test message, just seeing if this works.
Ron Posted:
Jan 28, 2008 - 06:59:44



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